Some seduction strategies used by men when trying toseduce a woman who catch their fancy never work. Most men have low success rate
when it comes to wooing the women they desire most. What then are they doing
wrong when it comes to enticing that woman of their dreams?
- Pursuing her when you don’t interest her;
In
the past, a man would approach a woman, declare his undying love, she would
then give her the top-down derogatory look and dismiss him. Unperturbed, the
guy would go back to her the next day and she would again tell him off. This cycle of rejection would continue but the
guy would never relent on his love quest. Years later, they would get married
in a very colourful ceremony and he would testify how he worked hard to get
hitched to that amazing woman bride. Back then, a man had to persistently go
after a woman, convincing her to love and marry him even if it will take a
decade.
Fast
forward to today, when a woman tells that she doesn’t want you, she mean it.
Don’t waste your time & energy in convincing her. Before you declare your
interest in a lady, it’s prudent to first find out whether the attraction is
mutual, so you end up heartbroken. Does she enjoy your company? Does she create
time to be with you and sometimes initiate conversations? Do you excite her to
point she sometimes forgets her appointments? If she does all these, then you
have a shot.
- Being too nice
Who
exactly is a nice guy? A nice guy is a harmless guy, the kind other guys
wouldn’t mind hanging out with their girlfriend since he is not considered a
threat. A nice guy is the one who put everyone’s interest above his own. A nice
guy is afraid of confrontations, so he readily agrees even when he holds a
divergent opinion. He goes out of his way to please people at the expense of
his comfort and meekly fulfils favour even when they are blatantly against his
principles. A nice guy believes being is a currency you can later trade for
affection or sexual favours. Don’t
be too nice, if she ask you to do something you not comfortable with, don’t do
it. Always speak out your mind and if she is more than thirty minutes late on a
date without prior notice, get up and leave. Sometimes, you have to put your
interests before everyone else in order to successfully seduce her.
- Being too available
It’s rather normal to drift away from your boys and
spend more time with the girl that fascinates you. However, being too available
can have a negative effect on your fling. If you avail yourself whenever she
want, you will in no time cease being a challenge and she will begin
overlooking your worth. This is no way advocating for guys to pull the
disappearing act, rather a man should also spend a quality time with his
family, friends and engage in activities he likes. Before a lady gets serious
with a guy, she first put him to test. She may ask you a carefully structured
questions rather casually which you will mostly like to answer without much
thought unaware that your potential relationship pegged on your response. She may also deliberately ignore you, stop
things she normally does or just piss you off to gauge your reaction. This is
the worst period for a man and he can maintain sanity is if he has another lass
who excites him. Therefore don’t black list all other girls until she is all
yours
